Title:	Finding my peace
Content:	Most people who have broken up in their relationship, you’ll find them in pain, struggling to handle the loss. Not for me... I feel at peace. We’ve been together for a while, and I loved none like I did with her, but there was an important part missing.. my peace of mind. The love I had for her canceled out the red flags. I endured a lot of things, and she did as well... I wasn’t a saint. Without the love, we wouldn’t have lasted a week. I have spent all of the love I saved, but I’m glad I did. She made me a better person, she taught me a lot about love and relationships, and I learned my flaws. But in the end, we had to part ways. I couldn’t meet her expectations when it came to love; no matter the effort I put in, it was never enough. Maybe I’m bad at this. I tried to make it work, I tried so hard that my inner peace kept chipping away little by little. I was always second-guessing myself, always treading on glass so as not to hurt her or make her angry. I’ve learned you can’t teach someone who doesn’t want to understand you. I loved her, but when the love drains you more than it fills you, you need to choose peace. Sometimes I had to lie that I traveled just so I could have my peace. I was in love, but I didn’t receive the love back. No matter how much I tried, it was never enough. She’s not a bad person, she’s actually a very good person.. but we’re not compatible as partners. That’s the truth. There was love, but it wasn’t enough. We had to let each other go and hope we find the person who truly loves us and aligns with us.
Category:	Relationship	Sep 5, 07:50 PM

Title:	Why Do We Struggle to Connect on This Platform?
Content:	From my perspective, I’ve had the opportunity to meet several people on this platform. I’ve made good friends with some, while with others, we just didn’t connect. I often read posts mostly from women expressing how hard it is to build real connections or find serious relationships here. But from what I’ve observed, it goes both ways. First, many people here are still hurting. They’ve gone through heartbreaks and come here seeking solace because of the anonymity the platform offers. Some just want to vent or feel heard. The truth is: if you haven’t healed from a previous relationship, getting into a new one often leads to more pain, both for you and your partner. Healing should come first. Second, honesty is lacking, especially among some men. Not everyone on this platform is looking for a relationship, and that’s okay. But if you're not, say it upfront. If you’re just here for companionship or conversation, be clear about your intentions. Be honest about who you are: whether you're still in school, a salary earner, or running a small business. Not every woman is chasing after luxury or status. Some just want someone they can build with, someone who brings peace, shares their values, and grows alongside them. Faking a lifestyle only leads to disappointment down the road. Lastly, we all need to tone down our expectations and focus on what truly matters, someone who is financially stable, respectful, kind, religious, caring and loving (if that matters to you), and has good character. We all dream of a partner with millions in their account, a flawless body, or a garage full of cars. But that’s not most people’s reality. Every Friday, we see couples getting married on social media, how many of them truly fit those idealized checklists? Very few. There’s nothing wrong with wanting good things, some ladies here that I'm friends with, their phone is my 6 month salary 😂 go for your size but let the basics be your deal breakers, not superficial qualities. If we’re all just a little more honest, with ourselves and each other—things would be so much better.
Category:	Advice	Jul 15, 06:06 PM

Title:	I'm distressed. Anyone to talk to?
Content:	Slm, anyone here to talk? I'm distressed and I'll like a listening ear. Note : I'm a male
Category:	General	Mar 6, 10:06 PM