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Assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullaahi.
First of all, thank you for that question sister. And thank you for being vocal about the subject. I'm a guy by the way.
Second of all, yes, after good character, financial stability and tsoron Allah, I hate the fact that most ladies and unfortunately some guys even, judge us because we are vocal about our physical qualities or preferences in a lady, when after all, everyone amongst us has got it.
Despite the fact that we men are overwhelmingly visual creatures, idan muka kasance vocal about it, se a fara judging din ka ana maka kallon ko "dan iska" ko "mara mutunci" ko "womanizer" ko "playboy" ko wanda baze kasance me leash ba idan yayi aure, and anything and everything in between. Bayan kuma kowa yana da abinda yake burge shi pertaining physical na partner.
That's sheer "hypocrisy" as someone mentioned in the original post.
Thank you first commenter for outrightly mentioning yours is/are "boobs and a curvy shape". Ni ma haka, coupled with chubby and plumpy figure.
And anyone that accuses me of probable infidelity or unfaithfulness, well, can ta matse maka/miki.
You won't make me stop admiring and being vocal to who I find physically appealing.
Peace ✌🏽 🕊️ |
