Anonymous May 19, 10:52 PM

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Salam alaikum,I want to ask men what we(chubby &fat) women have done to them? If they are looking for a woman to marry their spec is always ( she should be fair and slim)?, almost everyone faa,haba it's getting too much if all the men decide to get married to only fair and slim women who do they want we the chubby ones to marry? Please it's getting too much and we are going into depression everyday because of this issues. Dan Allah maza ku so mu please, is not by our choice that we are chubby and dark too please


Anonymous #1 May 20, 02:40 AM
Well for starters you could try slimming down, do exercise and then watch your diet, it helps!
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Anonymous #2 May 21, 12:55 PM
Some ladies don't slim down no matter what they do. Just love yourself the way you are and have confidence and fate in Allah, a man is out there for each one of us In Shaa Allah
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Ayesha audu May 22, 06:43 PM
Yes, most men's spec I have came across do want slim or fair ladies that's but there are a lot of men who don't mind chubby ladies. Also i think you should try to occupy your mind with something else that can keep you productive. Marriage is not the world its just part of life, so try to engage yourself in something don't worry too much about it to the extent of being depressed.
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Double signal May 25, 10:06 PM
Gaskiya the truth is not every guy is into fat women bcos every guy/man would love to have someone that will fit into everything he wants..EG car pictures etc..thats my opinion but May The Almighty Allah gives you men that would love you...i come in peace
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Nabil baba Jul 8, 03:42 AM
Text me wen you get this I think I have answers that will give you peace
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Yunus Abba Aug 4, 09:15 AM
My sister there are mens that want to marry chubby, just keep on praying, you will get your match.
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