Feb 12, 06:55 PM
am very scared of marriage ? how can I overcome it
Hi I was married 4yrs back without knowing the man is mentally ill everything happened in a rush the first meeting to marriage happens in 2months time and we just meet once face to face the 2nd was during wedding (it's my qadr) I was treated very badly by him I was beaten up many times he slap me in any misunderstanding I suffered alot in those 8months before my parents got me separated from him though he didn't divorce me untill after I spent another 8months in my parents house saying he loves me he will not divorce my father threaten him of going to court before he handed the divorce paper now I really want to get married and am very afraid of been married again I use to feel why would I go back to that terrible life but deep down I feel I want my own home, my own family, I want to see my own children how can I overcome this ???