Oct 13, 12:58 AM
Why it's harder for ladies to get husbands.
This topic was discussed on Instagram recently by Mr. Khaleeepha and some other brothers and sisters. Some people were just discussing about rawan ido, having expectations and other reasons.This is my take on it. MATA! Mu kama kan mu dan Allah. Wallahi we are too loose now adays all in the name of wanting and keeping a man. Have "standards" and i mean modesty and kama kai. A guy will start chatting u up and suddenly, you're in love, he'll request for nudes, ki tura, start dirty talks, phone sex etc.. ku hadu, ya shafa ki, some sex right away.. please how will the men want to settle down with us. They are also sceptical about finding a good wife (as if they haven't done their part of the sin). *Note* There is literally nothing you'll do to keep a man, he will leave you when he feels like it. Then we think Allah zai barmu ba punishment. How about the other ladies that are pious and want to settle down amma mun bata masu kasuwa? I believe if men are starved of any physical contact b4 marriage, they would make more efforts in getting married. We keep saying ba maza, lol. There are alot out there. We are feeding them. WHY GET THE COW WHEN THEY GET THE MILK FOR FREE? Please let's ammend our ways. Salam