What are the pros and cons of dating a 19 years old girl?
Anonymous Nov 18, 09:14 PM

What are the pros and cons of dating a 19 years old girl? 0

Slkm. I'm 28 years old and in love with this 19 year old girl. Insha Allah we are planning to get married. I was just wondering the pros and cons of marrying a girl at this age. Thanks!


Abubakar Usman Nov 19, 05:58 AM
Assalamu alaikum! bro, I hope this meets you well. you should know better about her pros and cons because nobody is in a relationship with her other than you bro… I advise you get to know more about her, and remember nobody is perfect. I will also advise that you teach her any Islamic knowledge you have to add to her existing ones. May Almighty Allah bless your good intentions, guide, and protect you and her. Ameen
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Anonymous Nov 19, 02:04 PM

Sounds good, however there're more cons than pros. I understand nobody is perfect, but she's obstinate and have this "I don't care attitude." I understand she's young and people her age have all these traits. I guess I have to be patient with her and give her enough time to grow up. And yes I do try to guide and teach her the Islamic way of life of doing things. But, she doesn't care.
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Abubakar Usman Nov 19, 05:14 PM

then I strongly advise you don't put all your emotions on her... at her age its normal for her to feel like a princess that every Knight wants... therefore, treat her exactly like a child... may Allah see you through.
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